Start work for pending packages

Start work for pending packages

Updating the database table for management (packaging) to have three new fields.
Originally named them to_email,from_email,email_notification. Had to rename them
in my database and update the create and update script to add a prefix of
package_ to these names. As they were conflicting with the events ones.

I added the new field for status and updated the member edit and the member
manager edit package page to use the status. To have it marked pending when
the member edits the package.  Need to test this out though for member that is
not moderated.  I added the notification class from the events and coupon
that I used there and I'm setting it up for the email notifications.
Testing right now the email for admin.
Emails working currently.